My husband and I have a long history together. We met in high school, and after 10 years of marriage, we were ready to have a family. My sister had experienced trouble getting pregnant, so as a result I worried that I might have the same problem.

My worries were partially confirmed when my husband and I unsuccessfully tried to conceive. In our case, we discovered we had the unlucky combination of both male and female factor infertility. At that point we were under the care of our gynecologist. On our doctors’ recommendation, we went through IUI near the end of 2003. It was a nightmare for a lot of reasons. I reacted poorly to Clomid and did not conceive.

While I was still trying to conceive, my sister was happily on her way to having a family. She had gone to the next level of care: an expert reproductive endocrinologist at Pacific Fertility Center. We were of course delighted to hear the news of her pregnancy, but at the same time frustrated because we were still not pregnant. We had always thought that once we were ready to have a family, we would be able to get pregnant easily and naturally.

After our disastrous IUI cycle, we tried again naturally, but to no avail. Frustrated and tired, we took a break. After a while, I spoke with my sister Alison, who referred us to Dr. Herbert at Pacific Fertility Center. He was wonderful and had great bedside manner. He was positive and upbeat despite our combined infertility diagnosis. We went straight to IVF with Gonal F and Repronex. Unfortunately, my body didn’t respond well.

I really appreciated Dr. Herbert during this discouraging time. He was frank with us and indicated that my follicles were not looking good. Without good follicles, the ability to retrieve a reasonable number of quality eggs was in question, so we did not continue our IVF cycle. Dr. Herbert was very flexible; he listened, explained our options and didn’t dictate what we should do. He suggested IUI as a way to salvage the IVF cycle and much to our surprise, we became pregnant! When I got the good news that my husband and I were going to be parents for the first time, I was “over-the-top” happy calling everybody I knew. In addition, on our first ultrasound, we saw two beating hearts. We not only were pregnant, but also were pregnant with twins!

The irony is that after my sister Alison had twins, I too envisioned having twins. During our initial OB ultrasound, Dr. Herbert indicated that he saw two heartbeats. We had a scare at one point as we thought I had experienced a miscarriage. However, I had just had some bleeding and passed a blood clot. I appreciated Dr. Herbert during this time, as he remained calm at all times. Much to our delight, I gave birth to a healthy, beautiful set of twins (Justin and Eva) who are now over a year old.

I thoroughly enjoyed my experience at PFC. They were great from a logistical standpoint, and were great about getting all of the paperwork out of the way quickly. I appreciate the nurses—Anne was awesome and whenever we called she was very kind and understanding. I loved going to appointments as it was such as positive experience. Additionally, I appreciate PFC for their professionalism. Dr. Herbert was so experienced and knew what he was doing the whole time; I trusted him a lot. I truly love our children. It is wonderful for my sister and me to be able share experiences as we learn about the joys of parenthood firsthand. It is sweet irony indeed.

Leslie

Leslie’s journey to a successful pregnancy was a bit unconventional but contains several important messages for you, our patients. The stimulation of her ovaries during her first IVF attempt did not progress as we had hoped. There were fewer follicles and some were large and others small (follicle disparity). Had this been her final attempt on very high doses of medication, we might have proceeded on to egg retrieval. However, we felt the stimulation was suboptimal and we expected to improve this process in another cycle by changing the medication regimen. As Leslie and her husband were diagnosed with unexplained infertility, we also felt she might conceive by ovulating the few larger follicles which were present and using intrauterine insemination. Fortunately we were correct, and Leslie now has two wonderful children. These conversions from a planned IVF cycle to IUI cycle can produce pregnancies as often as 10% of the time as long as there are no other fertility factors like tubal damage or severe sperm problems and the age of the woman is not advanced (less than 38 years). Leslie’s story is a good example of persistence in spite of initial disappointment, of using all the options available in the most effective manner, and of “keeping the faith”. We hope Leslie’s story can be an inspiration to others who may face similar disappointments on their journey to parenthood.

Carl Herbert, MD

Tags: Female Infertility, IUI, IVF - In Vitro Fertilization, Male Infertility, Unexplained Infertility

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