Can I donate my embryos to another infertile couple?
Yes, it is possible to donate embryos. This process is sometimes referred to as embryo adoption.
There are many advantages to embryo donation, including giving another couple the chance to have a child and avoiding having to discard the embryos that took so much effort to create. However, the process resembles adoption in many ways, as there are a series of requirements that need to be satisfied before the donation can be completed. These include legal contracts between the parties and psychological counseling. Also, matching donors and recipients can be very difficult as each couple will have specific demands and these can be difficult to satisfy. You might want to donate your embryos anonymously or you might ask that your children be allowed to have contact with any children that result from use of the embryos. The recipient couple may or may not want contact with you. However, they might insist on medical tests on you or information on your family that you won't necessarily want to give out. They may want a clause in the contract that gives them access to you if the child becomes severely ill. They could ask that you adopt the child if anything happens to them.
Since the matching of couples for embryo donation is complicated, Pacific Fertility Center do not typically get involved. Patients are required to find their own donor or recipient and if the legal contracts and psychological testing can be completed, we can help with medical tests and treatment. Often, the embryos will have to be moved to another part of the country, since you won't necessarily find a recipient in San Francisco. In this situation, shipping the embryos is the responsibility of the donating couple, and we can provide information on getting embryos sent to another IVF clinic.
Couples considering embryo donation can find information on this subject on the Internet at www.snowflakes.org and from RESOLVE, a national organization for childless couples at www.resolve.org.