One of the biggest challenges we face as fertility medicine specialists is how to do more to help our least-likely-to-succeed patients. What I mean here is the 42-and-over age group, patients with high FSH levels (decreased ovarian reserve), patients with very low responses to fertility medications, or those with very poor quality eggs. Some patients have a combination of the above which leads to a really dim prospect of having a baby with their own eggs.

Some people get the impression that fertility clinics avoid these patients like they have a communicable disease. They get the impression that we try to cherry pick patients to keep success rates high and make the CDC stats look good.  My impression from talking to my colleagues across the country and certainly from our own practice is that we do not try to discourage patients with poor possibilities from making a consult appointment and discussing treatment options. We all have such patients. In fact, we have so many of them at PFC, I don’t think we would have many patients at all if we tried to pre-select our best prognosis patients for IVF. When it comes to treatment, although there are challenges and sometimes the rewards are few, we don’t just throw up our hands and give up. We try to come up with a strategy to achieve the goal, looking at the emotional reserves and financial resources we have to work with, and start by making a plan.

Sometimes that plan will be to try a couple of cycles of low-tech approach, like just intrauterine insemination or Clomid + insemination, or a mid-level approach, like injections of FSH along with  insemination. We would see how things go and play it by ear from there. Sometimes, the plan will be to blast ahead to the big guns, full steam ahead to IVF. Sometimes, it’s counseling with our marriage and family therapist to begin the discussion: are we ready to move on to donor eggs? Sometimes it’s a sequence of all of the above. There really is no one plan for any one person. It’s just too complex to say one size fits all.

A certain percentage, even of the-less-likely-to-succeed patients will get pregnant with their own eggs and go on to deliver a healthy baby. The remainder may be faced with a tough decision. Do we just stop here and live child-free?  There are certain perks to that plan (sleeping in on the weekends, eating in nicer restaurants, adult vacations to name just a couple) but most people want to have a family no matter what or how. So then there is the adoption vs. egg donation question. There is no right or wrong choice here, either: just choices.